Dilemma - Part 2

His stupidity never cured, I mean, its ok if you wanna come to me, but not during a camp. He wanted to make me wet, licked my pussy, have sex, admit having feelings for me and other sex talk. Firstly, of course I was shocked, I never had a guy telling me so many things before. Even back in office, I have sex talk with guys too, but not like this. He touched me several times, even until that part, when I pushes his arms away several times. He even asked me to go back to Penang with him, but I rejected, cause I know something bad could really happen. Yet, he still never stop pursuing me.

He is right about me being horny, wanting to try stuff. Who would not want to. When you're until a certain age, without a boy friend, you certainly wanted to try something new. Watching porn does not mean I'm slut or being horny, its like you have to try or know something, like a sex education class. So that you won't freak out when it eventually happens. 'Freak out', right, that's what I am experiencing that night, I freak out, but luckily my DM mode still intact, still knows how to reject him. Probably because he has a girl friend, makes me reject directly. If he is single, I might have done that with him that night. Just maybe.

Then when I am back in Penang, when I had my mind cleared up, I decided I could try something here, without needing to worry about scout and stuff. Its like cheating during exams, you have to wait until the right moment, when the teacher is not looking and stuff. For me, it is like that. We had a movie night on our first date, and man, he is really aggressive and does know how to a girl wet and high. We made out, talk a little, and he thought I felt something for him. Well, I did not really have a thing on him, I just wanna try something new, but I'll just let him think that way. It's easier.

Over the week, we hanged out, dated, make out and one night he proclaimed to be my boy friend. Oh boy, is he being too naif or what? Just a few dates, not even a week, you proclaimed to be my boy friend. Man, this is just an affair, not a relationship. Though I treat him kind of booty call or FWB. Surely not my boy friend. Well, he also tells me that I am his princess although he know he is not my prince. I chose not to believe this crap, because you know, guys words are not be trusted fully.

And things changed recently. I actually get angry at him for not accompanying me on 201314. He send me a text earlier that morning, saying he love me, I actually don't take this shit completely, as he could say the same thing to his girl friend as well. Initially, I plan to make him say that word to me, not just by texting, but to actually say it out to me. But it did not work, cause he's not around that night. My mood is definitely affected, I couldn't work, there's 2 freaking important file to be cleared ASAP. So, what I do is take it out on him, telling him not to bother anymore. He called and we made up, but I'm still emo whole night. 

While I'm emo-ing, I start to think why would I get angry at him? I wondered if I start having feelings for him, cause that's the last thing I want it to happen. Or just because I am not happy cause I feel stupid, and I did not go back to AS this weekend. I still did not figure it out. 

And today, it is yesterday to be exact, I ask him to enjoy his day off, cause his girl friend is around, and I don't expect any calls or text until he is free. Then he called me at night, like taking the opportunity of the short moment while she is off to buy things and stuff, the call started nicely, until he said she's coming back so he had to end the phone call. I dunno what the hell happen to me, I send him a text saying I feel like being treated like a booty call, do this again and I won't pick up his call anymore. Hmm...I should have typed I won't see him anymore. I think I just want to teach him a lesson, and to see what his reaction is. It is fun to make him feel anxious, nervous and him all over me.

As a typical guy, he called me hours later, guessed when he is free or she going for bath, but I just ignored his called. Mainly cause I still wanna see what his reaction is, and also I was wearing my retainer, lazy to talk. No talk, then he send me a text, apologizing, saying I meant something for him, not a booty call n stuff, but I haven't reply anything until now. Man, this guy is serious, I guessed. But he still has not earned the way in, cause he did not do it right. 

What I want is much more traditional, proper dates, proper normal talk and sweet talk, able to share things, connect together, maybe some presents, and not just make out or sex. I am not saying it's not important, but just not the main ingredient into forming a relationship. And he never gets it, only tell me to 'enjoy the moment', and always wanted to have sex with me. At this rate, this is only going to be an affair, what we do is just made out and sex. Part of me wanted to remain like this, cause I don't want to developed too strong feeling or fall in love with him. It's torturing and complicated, especially when he already has a girl friend, proclaiming he love me only. Yet part of me wanted him completely, do much more traditional stuff , having a relationship that would consumed me, but I dunno how to settle the his gf problem. I really can't imagine if she knows about us. I think she will get crazy and mad, and my reputation will be gone immediately. I certainly don't want that.

So, I keep on telling myself not to fall for this guy, it's just an affair, where he could never earn his way into my heart, and I am actually waiting for another guy to take action. For real, I really hope 'he' will take action, but my feeling towards him starts to fade, I dunno what to do. Just wait and see what happens then. Hope I can achieve what I want, and avoid being a slut and lose my reputation just like that. Totally not worth it.

Yet, I feel like I started to have real feelings for him. I get mad at him. It's not right, it should not have happen. Hope time could prove that this is wrong, I never intended this to happen. Perhaps just a crush, it is still acceptable. Real feelings, I don't know what will I do.....

Till then

-yeEvoN_Dutch-